Guys, before you DM that girl who "slays" in her photos.

Dear Guys, before you DM that pretty girl who "slays" in her ig and twitter photos, let me tell you something about them. Okay, they look great but you already know they get comments like that from a selfie of them wearing a dress, good outfit, whatever.

No, I ain't speaking about all girls but it's many girls I've encountered. Here's the thing... you gotta look at how she is, what she does, character, background for crying out loud. And no I'm not saying ethnicity, I'm talking about where she comes from and how she handles things.. you know it?

Here's the thing about those girls who tweet about their day. From when they are complaing about getting up to school till tweeting how it's 2am and they forgot to study for a test later on that day in school. What does this show about them?

They got time.

They got time to talk about their day. It displays that they are very active amongst their whole day. But here's the thing...

They talk about everything!! Boy if you are talking to that girl; just know that if you make a mistake during the date, you might see her on her phone, but after the date (because you shouldn't be on your phone during dates), you should check your Twitter. If she was tweeting and rt stuff about quotes or about just love and guys, dude... just leave it. Or you deal with it and will definitely have to learn a lot.. You pretty much know what type of girl she is based on her attitude during the date.

Now before you judge me saying "you can't judge a girl based on what she tweets".. You are kinda seeing something else..you just found someone who is in denial. Someone who denies anything that offends them. I mean, she's not gonna want to admit it. You can be right but she will be convinced it's your fault.. Yet it's sad that she tweets how she treats people well and gets hurt questioning herself.. Like girl just stop. It's pretty attractive seeing a girl show humility to herself and say she can't hold everything down.

All she post on her social media is herself. There's not a week that she would not post a selfie of herself.. And I mean if her captions are like "twitter saw it first", then you already know the rest. She post screenshots about convos and tweets from people captioning "that's me"??.. then there you go brother, that is her. And you can't lie, if you ever try to correct her, she'll likely respond with "lol" and sub-post you or probably try to curse you out and screenshot it embarrassing you. Like I said, it doesn't matter how much she "slays" in her photo, if her character sucks, not worth the slide on her DMS.

Here are some hints you should notice:

If she posts a selfie with her clothes on the floor... what does that mean? Does she have a thing of having her clothes around in her photos? Could you presume laziness or can't listen to her parents when they tell her to pick up her clothes?

Or when she captions her photo saying "ft. Dirty mirror".. well then, I guess they never heard what Windex is.

You ought to know that when being in a relationship with these girls, you sign yourself up for being subtweeted constantly. Signing yourself up for pain.

It's been a month, and she's snapping over the fact you didn't do something with her for your 1 month because you were raised differently than them. It makes sense. Also being referred on her snapchat. "My man is this", "my man is that", "my man can't do this..", "my man can only do this" like jheeze is this woman your mother? Do you consider this a healthy relationship?

Is this how every girl is on social media? Absolutely not. There are girls who post pictures of themselves and also things they like to do.. such as going out with friends, exploring sites, family photos, etc. I have my preferences and a girl who vents her problems on Twitter everyday and just wants people to feel sorry for herself, I can't seem to grow along with that. Just because you say no to her doesn't mean you lost the very best. It's annoying to hear a girl tell you that loosing her is over for you; that you will never get a good girl. But let me tell you this, a good girl is a girl who lost you or you lost and hopes for the best for either of you because everyones gotta learn. I have my opinions, what are yours?

Dear Kylie Jenner and the rest.

Dear Kylie Jenner and the rest of any boy or girl who feel like they aren't pretty or handsome,

I like you Kylie but it's hard to understand you. I remember seeing you at your pre-teen age in the first few seasons of Keeping Up with the Kardashians. You see, you were just the young girl always getting in trouble with Kendall because hey, you were just kids. I always thought there was something special about you. I thought you were really pretty. I was in high school when I started watching the reality T.V series. I started to see the change you and Kendall were setting onto. Whenever it was the hair or the lips being done.

Now after seeing that, I felt it wasn't right to watch the show anymore. I mean, too many young girls look up to your sisters, especially Kim. In my opinion, I don't really see Kim as a role model to young girls in my opinion... I'll probably talk about that in my next blog.

Many of these girls.. They see what you guys have. The 'perfect' life. The beauty. When you were 13, you weren't all about the life you have now. There are 13 year old girls or even younger who want to be like you.

Who knows if you stayed the same without the lips being done if you would have the same fans you have today.

I started to go back in watching the reality show. I started to see something. You're different than most of your sisters. To me, you don't seem like you want to have this "luxury" life.

I feel like sometimes you gotta live to the expectation because you are around one of the most famous people in TV this era. You try so much and you have people hating on you, people judging you, ridiculing you, honestly it never ends.

Everytime I go on Facebook, and just search out your name, you post a photo. Majority of comments is just judgement. Judging your mom's parenting skills, judging on how you're too young to dress like this or what you're wearing. Listen I may not like what someone is doing or wearing but I'm not gonna put them down to make me feel better.

And this is all I see from people.. judging you usually because they don't have the lifestyle that you have. But in my opinion.. I can see it. You don't want this.

So my message is do something you like. Don't do something to make people happy, do it because you like it.

I'm working overnight and on my shift at 5am I see on snapchat discovery page a post from Daily Mail on you..

You admitted you got your lips done because you thought guys won't kiss you because you had thin lips? This is wrong

To you and to all these girls who feel like you need to change something, your appearance to be liked or to be more secure of yourself, I can't judge you, all I can say is make sure this is something you really want to do.

All of you are beautiful, without your lips, mouth, eye lids, butt, chest, legs, etc being done.

I tend to ask myself who was very insecure on my lips, teeth and eye lid being big than the other if I got these done.. I would have a different reaction... Maybe I'll get more likes, more comments on a selfie, probably be hit on by more girls..

https://www.instagram.com/p/5aajFlNjngjRjSaUNVPBvCEfonhYL34cwGPE40/

But what's the point really? I just basically told my creator, "hey uhm.. yeah the way you made me with my lips and nose.. yeah you suck." I can't insult my creator for making me look with these specific features. Because I know one day, one person will love these features of mine and will want to be with this nerdy guy.

Yeah, we can say when it comes to braces it's a nessecity. I mean, it fixes your teeth which gives a good look but it also prevents anything harmful that could harm your teeth, gums and your mouth.

But if your lips that are small won't cause pain, why fix it?

I'm not saying to not do these changes for yourself guys. I'm saying to look at yourself and ask yourself "do I love myself? Do I think I'm beautiful?" If you can say that with an honest heart, I say go for it. If you can't, then that's all on you.

Kylie Jenner has admitted that she regrets getting her lips done. Now, it's your choice. If you wanna have a new style, change something of yours, go for it! If there's something you don't like, I don't know maybe freckles, beauty mark, small lips, just know this... Maybe that person you're interested is not into what you have. But someone is!

Many of you people idolize Kylie Jenner, thinking she is the definition of beautiful, perfection... but that's not it. Beautiful doesn't mean having the right appearance; it means having high standards. Standards such as character, high maintenance, class, respect, dignity, etc. I mean, a house can look beautiful on the outside but on the inside there could be a huge mess.

Kylie Jenner can do anything because of course, she's got the money. But if she didn't, would she be obsessed in finding a way to get her lips done? Maybe not, maybe she would learn without experiencing it that she is beautiful in her own way. Now getting surgery is expensive, and yeah, you may have the money or your parents do, but remember what I say, to do it because you know you are already beautiful and you just want to be creative.

Remember, looks may fade but the heart will always be the same.

JAYS WON THE ALDS!!

Grab the brooms guy and let the celebration begin!

Well, I guess some of you right now. This post is late.

Yeah guys sorry for the late post. Been busy with editing my video which I hope I can upload it tonight but I can't because tonight is my first overnight shift and dang I'm kind of nervous

RECAP OF GAME 5

Although Sanchez pitched so dominant having his ERA to a career high of .300, he wasn't the Ace many jays fan thought of in that game.

In the 1st inning, Texas DH, Carlos Beltran grounded to the right side which scored Carlos Gomez. Jays later took the bottom by a 2-run homeroom from Edwin Encarnacion and a solo blast from Russel Martin.

Rangers this time bought their bats in this elimination game. SS Elvin Andrus cut the deficit to one in the third inning with a solo shot.

Jays didn't wanted it. Josh Donaldson later doubled to score Carrera, and the Edwin hit a sharp single to left centre field to score Donaldson to have this game at 5-2.

Toronto public enemy #1 Rougned Odor did not want to give up and so he answered the boos with a 2 run-home-run.

Then later in the inning with reliever Joe Biagini on the mound, it looked like Rangers were gonna take this game. First basemen Mitch Moreland doubled to the left centre field scoring 2 Rangers now leading the game by 1.

But the boys were not finished.

In the bottom of the 6th with men on third and second, 2B Dawin Barney popped out to yet again probably have the Jays stranded in scoring position because it's already 2 outs now. With Carrera at bat, the Texas reliever threw a ball outside and catcher Jonathan Lucroy couldn't manage to catch it. Troy Tulowitzki scores and we are tied at 6 in the 6ix.

The bullphen from both clubs were amazing. They were amazing plays that could allow a scoring chance but these teams were fighting like if they're lives were depending on it.

Then it happened. On the 10th inning, Rangers pitcher Matt Bush seems like he has the game well in his hands. After when Donaldson hits a double in left centre field and an intentional walk to Edwin Encarnation, Jose Bautista can once again be the hero and a nightmare to the Rangers if he pokes a ball to the grass. Unfortunately, he struck out, having to deal with Russell Martin to play hero. With 3-2 count, Martin hits a tricky hopper to SS Andrus. It seemed like it would be a routine double play, but boy were the baseball gods here tonight. Right when Odor caught the ball for first out, his throw to first base was wide for first baseman Moreland to reach for the ball leaving Martin to be safe. The ball bounced out of his glove and with a heads up play by Donaldson, he rounded third and scored to win the ballgame and series. Rangers manager Banister requested a challenge to see if there was interference on second base maybe interrupting the play. Umpire Joe West received the call and it was upheld ending the ball game.

#MakeMeSmileIn3Words: And he’s safe! https://t.co/KEh5LuNGpT

— Blue Jays (@BlueJays) October 12, 2016

Odor, the public enemy of city of Toronto who homered to quiet the fans committed the last error to let the Blue Jays walk off. It's true, 'I rather get punched in May than be knocked out in October." I believe now that the fans and the Blue Jays are very thankful for Odor. What a Thanksgiving weekend!

Now what's next?? Time to play in the ALCS. Last year, the Blue Jays lost in game 5 against Kansas City who the last inning was very close for them to go into game 6. Time for redemption. On an update note, the Cleveland Indians also swept the Red Sox ending Ortiz last season in his career. Lets hope the bats that we saw this series in the ALDS continues against Cleveland and their dominant pitching staff. This playoff team reminds me of the 2015 Blue Jays team back in August. 

Game 1 in Cleveland starts at 8 Friday night.

Let's go boys!!!

Last night’s celebration photos are a sight to see! #OurMoment pic.twitter.com/PebZO5Lswh

— Blue Jays (@BlueJays) October 10, 2016

JAYS TOOK THE WILD CARD GAME!

Wow! What an amazing day! I have no words on to say about my favourite baseball team.

Before I talk about this amazing game, I just wanna talk about today and oh man, it's really awesome to be working at a job where your manager will talk about how he plays Pokemon GO during his break. This man is team mystic woohoo!

It was a very chill shift. I took out the garbage and clean out the back. Then I had to learn about putting talkers below the product and then just organizing it.

The time was 8:00 and I was very nervous in hearing what the game is gonna have. When I had my small break, it was just the first inning of this AL Wild Card Game. Then, I realize time was going too fast. It was already 9:20 after i finish my second last task. My mind was all about the game. Then when I finished at 10:00, I clocked out and called my mother. Thank God she was outside waiting. I checked in on the radio to hear the game; I looked at my phone too.. It was 2-2. Then I got home watching the game and oh man there were chances for both sides. I was nervous and shaking too much.

Then, it happened.

After a close ninth inning for the Jays with a lead off double by Josh Donaldson and a walk to Edwin, unfortunately Jose Bautista struck out and Russell Martin hit a double play, this game was gonna turn into something special.

After O'Day retired the side in the 10th, the Jays had starter Fransisco Liriano and man has he been bringing it. Retired the side and now here comes the middle part of the line up. With the power house line up, I thought Showwalter will use his best reliever, his close Zach Britton, but instead used Ubaldo Jimenez.

Now, people would criticize Buck for his choice but I understand why he did it... If the O's scored, Britton will be in. The fact Ubaldo was dominant against the Jays the last game he started, Buck was sure his pitcher will get out of the inning.

But he thought wrong.

After Carrera got called out on strikes, Travis and Donaldson singled so now it's 2 men on first and third with one out and the best RBI hitter is into the plate. With Jimenez seemingly to have loose control on his mechanics with the pressure, Edwin makes him pay. When Os catcher Matt Wieters was set up for an outside pitch, the ball got lost and went into Edwin's sweet spot and he didn't miss it at all.

With all those who criticize Gibbons for placing Stroman today, I hope you guys feel it because he was amazing today. I had so much faith that he will bring it tonight and he did. Also great work from the bullpen on both clubs.

.@Encadwin: “SEE YOU IN ARLINGTON,” definitely! #OurMoment pic.twitter.com/S9m1wL8SCd

— Blue Jays (@BlueJays) October 5, 2016

Now what's next? Time for some revenge against the Texas Rangers. The Rangers have had a great season this year but did not have it with the Blue Jays. Of course, everyone knows what happened the last time the Jays visited Texas. Lets hope for a great series and watch out Odor, we don't like you hurting our players.

Bring on Odor.#BlueJays #OurMoment pic.twitter.com/TjBbixQGcl

— Kamil Karamali (@KamilKaramali) October 5, 2016

Lets go boys!!

Blue Jays won! Are we ready to defeat the Os in the wildcard game Tuesday?

THE JAYS ARE IN!!!

My Sunday was shacked up and full of excitement having to watch two baseball games at the same time. The Toronto Blue Jays VS Boston Red Sox, and the Detroit Tigers VS Atlanta Braves. These were must win games. If the Blue Jays win against Boston, they are in; if the Tigers loose, we still in; win or lose. If the Tigers win, they would need to win tomorrow on a make up game to see if they would be able to compete in a tie breaker against Toronto Tuesday.

So as you already read my headline; we made it to the post season. Jays won 2-1 on a close game and being special over the fact, soon to be hall of famer David 'Big Papi' Ortiz, had his last game for the regular season.

Devon Travis stakes the #BlueJays to a 1-0 lead. https://t.co/6zfLhWuKTA pic.twitter.com/VvTC6cxJBn

— Sportsnet (@Sportsnet) October 2, 2016

Second baseman Devon Travis, drilled one over the Monster to get the Jays to have the first lead. Tulo later broke up a tie from Ramirez's solo home-run with an RBI and that's all she wrote.



To speak about the pitching... Sanchez was pitching a gem. He had a no hitter until Red Sox first baseman Hanley Ramirez broke it with a homer later in the game. Still, dominance performance by the young Ace.

So this is it. Against the team's rivals the Os. With Jones and Machado's clutch hitting, let's hope the Jays wish again for a victory to then face their post season rivals the Texas Rangers.

We all know there's gonna be intense playing with these clubs facing each other.



It's a due and die game Tuesday night in the 6. Lets hope this game ends with a bat flip.

The reason why I don't care about how many likes I get.

I think we all have insecure features as humans. As I'm watching one of my favourite shows Glee eating some Oh Henry! chunks, I tend to understand why I loved the show. The growth, the openness the characters were with each other. This show always lifted my moods when I'm upset. It's artistic expression brings me to feel ways that I don't understand.

You see, I don't care about many likes I get on my photo. Many times I see people on snapchat or twitter putting a post to like their photo they posted. Just another selfie with the same pose, what's new about that? But you see, I wasn't asking verbally to get likes on my photos. I was just desperate to see how to get those likes without showing my ugly self in it.

So lets get this straight. Since elementary school, I considered myself ugly. I felt very insecure. Nose too big, can't smile great and one eye lid is lower than the other making me look like I have a drooping eye lid.

I had trouble talking to girls because I had the thought they were not be interested because of my looks. It kept happening even in high school. I was never into taking photos of myself because of how I looked, I use to wear sun glasses in every webcam photo I took. I even tried to use my laptop to take a photo with me posing with my sister's Sony Ericsson mobile phone making it look like I took it with her phone. Yes, I was either in grade 9 and 10 with a crappy Nokia flip phone that could store 5 photos and 3 songs in my phone storage.

I even tried to change the filter to black and white with low brightness to make the photo be likeable. Just got 4 likes.

I think I wore my shades on top of my actual eye glasses in this photo, oh well.













Then of course, I tried to make myself look cool by wearing a plain shirt and use a hat making myself look cool... I think many guys even today still do it.

Of course you gotta show the belt showing that "swag". I got like 8 likes in this photo, hooray.


















This problem of mine kept persisting even when I went back to church and started to become my high school's street preacher. I saw on social media many guys I followed getting 50 likes, even 100... I just don't understand how those guys who like to play with those girl's hearts actually get many likes just from a selfie with good lighting and good angle to show their good side. I started to get more serious in weight room class and bulk up. I even begged my mom to buy me some brand clothes to look like I got more style, aha.

In the end, I received many likes on this photo. I got like the prettiest girls who follow me to actually like it. I felt like I found $20 on the floor.

Filter always making it better. Pretty much 30 likes on this photo.

















Then I realized this wasn't worth it. I got all these likes and a few comments and yet I still felt insecure... I still felt ugly. I tried to read articles, read verses and quotes but I felt like I wasn't receiving any good news.

I'm a christian so I'm not going to say I'm perfect but I can admit I don't have it together and I need someone to give me encouragement. God my father my brother and best friend gave me the exact words when I asked him why I was created like this.

Do I really want to get all these messages from girls because they like me because of my appearance, waste my time and delay the calling of the girl who I believe I should be with? That's not worth it. Not worth hurting girls or being hurt by girls even though I receive pleasure. Because 15 minutes of pleasure is not worth a life time span being with someone who liked you not just for your looks but also for your personality.

I can truly understand why I was created the way I am and that's for a purpose. A purpose for myself and everyone in my life that I have and will encounter.

Now, I really don't care how many likes I receive on my photos. I'm already happy. I don't need to base my happiness through the amount of likes or even from someone.

We all need to base our happiness through something eternal. If we base it on something temporary, our happiness will be temporary.

22 years and I can honestly say artistically and emotionally that I'm awesome becoming who I am.